i wanted to know what kind of reception she would have, because she would have a really great one.

i told her that i hoped i married someone with a good sense of humor. that i wouldn't be able to take that day seriously and i hope the woman i was going to marry wouldn't, either.

yeah, it came out all wrong on the phone, too.

so i explained myself. the marriage is a serious thing, in and of itself. but if i'm going to do it, i'm going to do it in a way that i feel comfortable with. i'm going to have fun.

yes, it'll be the most important day of my life ever, but it'll also be the day where everything is good. everything is comfortable.

but god forbid, if i fall in love with a woman who wants a strictly traditional religious wedding followed by a buttoned down reception, i'll do it for her.

i may not be completely happy, but i'd do it for her.

at one point, in our conversation, i said something along the lines of "if we had a reception we'd have such a great one."

and she said "i know."

i can't wait for the day she gets married. she'll be beautiful it'll be such a great wedding and reception.