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2007-11-06 - 11:22 a.m.

Kelly has a friend who has become a good friend of mine. Such a good friend she is becoming like a little sister to me.

She's dating this guy who, at first, seemed fairly decent. Then he started getting a little crazy. Crazy as in "if you don't hug me I'm going to come sit outside of your house until you do."

And he did that shit multiple times. The if you don't come see me I'm going to sit her all night to prove a point.

The 4th was her birthday. Kelly and I bought her a gift so I text her asking her to come by Kelly's work. She ended up texting me back, saying she was with James and at a movie. Then she text me later, wanting to meet up with us, so Kelly and I decided we would take her out for dessert.

We met her and her boyfriend at Dairy Queen. He made it fucking awkward from the beginning. He wouldn't talk at first, so I ignored him. He looked like he was going to cry. Then he got up and walked outside.

When he left Jessica told us they had been fighting and he was upset that she wasn't paying attention to him. To which Kelly said "you've spent all day with him. What else does he want?"

Then he came back in. And fucking put his head down on the table.

If I wasn't as refined as I am, I would have punched him in his head right then. This girl, Jessica, is an amazing incredible girl who deserves only the best on her birthday. I don't care if she does "ignore" you, IT IS HER BIRTHDAY.

You don't fucking ruin it for her by pouting like a little girl.

Then he got back up and left again.

And Jessica was wearing one of those half-jacket things so I was asking her if it made her lower torso cold, and he walked in and sat down and said "I'm sorry, did I make you change the conversation?"

And I said "no, I was asking her about her"

And he interrupted me to go on this rant about how he felt like she didn't want to talk to him and was ignoring him and he knew she was making him look like an asshole and as he was saying all this it became very uncomfortable for everybody.

Then he got done with his crying and I turned back to Jessica and said "so, no, really, does it make your belly cold?"

They ended up leaving.

Yesterday Kelly and I were going to Jessica's dad house to spend birthday time with them. We were out running around with Jessica when James text her and asked if he could come tonight. And she asked us. And we said we didn't want him around.

And she didn't want him around because she wanted it to just be us. So she told him that. And he started going psycho, saying "if you don't let me come it's over" and this and that. So I got on the phone and called him. I told him we wanted some time with Jessica where it was not awkward and where he didn't make it uncomfortable and he was already making it a bad night and to just let it go for right now.

I told them that I felt like he was going to show up sometime that night.

Jessica started getting texts saying he was coming over. He was driving in the rain. This that and the other.

This was when she told us that on her birthday she was over at his house and wanted to leave, but her car was at the mall and he refused to let her go.

That made me angry. And scared.

So time passes, we're in her dad's house, eating dinner. She looks outside and sees his car.

I get up and go outside and go to his car. I tell him he needs to leave. That he's acting like a stalker by following us out here. He replied "I didn't follow you. I came out here by myself. And I've already talked to some of my friends who are police. They say I can't get in trouble."

I tell him "I don't care what your friends say. If you want a chance with her, you need to drive away right now. Otherwise I'm going and telling her she needs to get a restraining order and it won't matter what your friends tell you, if you show up here you'll be in trouble."

He said he won't leave until Jessica tells him she wants him to. I remind him he's already been told multiple times that she doesn't want him there. He said "well I'll text her then."

I pull out her phone from my pocket and say "she gave me her phone. She told me to come out her. She does not want you here. Go."

And I walk back in. I then take Jessica back out there and say "Jessica, do you want him here?" and she says "no, I don't."

And we walk back in.

He then leaves and starts texting her all kinds of creepy messages like "I'll leave you alone but Walmart won't sell me a gun."

We end up leaving her dads and going to the mall, where he has last been, talking to one of her coworkers. We get there and find out that mall security has escorted him to their office because he was walking around crying and asking people for guns.

He works with the mall security, so they're kind of coddling him. We tell Jessica not to go talk to him. But she decides she wants to, so we go with her.

She gets taken into the office, we have to stand out in the hall. I'm making jokes to ease the tension. Jessica comes back outside. I'm still making jokes to make her smile.

This bitch comes out, says to me "these walls are thin, you might want to keep your snide comments to yourself" and pulls Jessica off to the side.

Kelly hears her tell Jessica "he just wanted to talk to you, that's all. Sometimes you have to choose between your friends and your boyfriend."

So now both of us are pissed off at this asshole.

We wait outside to make sure Jessica is okay, and make sure that someone is always in the office with her.

Jessica comes back out, at some point, and implies that that bitch said it was her fault James was suicidal.


I got really angry. Really angry. Took my jacket off, gave Kelly everything out of my pocket.

Jessica ended up going with James to the hospital. We went back to our house. Jessica ended up spending the night with James' family.

I'm afraid that she's going to stay with him even though he obviously needs help. I'm afraid that if he doesn't get help he's going to hurt her. I'm afraid I'm going to hurt him. I'm angry with that bitch mother fucking cunt who could even imply that this girl could have been at fault for anything.

I'm tired.


If anyone has any advice to pass on to my friend, please help me.

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